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LOCKDOWN-HOLY WEEK REFLECTIONS-DAY 7

Lockdown Day 7

A couple of days ago, the news came through that lockdown is to be extended by another three weeks. Whilst this was to be expected, I guess we were all hoping there was a slim chance the waiting period would be over. More waiting. It’s this in-between-time which we find so hard. It brings about more uncertainty.

Over Easter, Holy Saturday is where the body of Jesus Christ lay in the tomb, and is the period of uncertainty. It is the moment of somber waiting. We find this waiting period the hardest part to experience. Reflecting on what was and wondering what is to come.

Wait and Be Patient

How can we wait patiently during a time of uncertainty, especially when the waiting brings feelings of anxiety or sadness. Paul gives us some pretty sound advice when it comes to waiting. His threefold advice is paramount to our emotional and spiritual well-being.

"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." Romans 12:12

Be Joyful in Hope

Firstly, be joyful in hope. You’re probably wondering how we can have hope in our current situation, let alone joy. Experiencing hope and joy is not just about changing our mindset. We do actually have a reason to be hopeful, as well as joyful.

As Christians, we always have hope. Our hope is found in Jesus Christ, the One who defeated death. This should give us the right perspective we need in our current situation and therefore provide us with the joy we need. Do you want the good news? Everyone has access to Jesus as their Hope – not just Christians!

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Be Faithful in Prayer

I’m going to skip the second piece of advice briefly and look into Paul’s third piece of advice. (You’ll see why in a minute – be patient 😊😉) Paul’s third advice is to be faithful in prayer. Keep praying – wherever we are, whatever we are doing and whenever we can.

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When we experience any type of suffering, we should pray whilst we wait for what we are hoping in. When we pray, it connects us with God. God hears us and understands what we are going through and He helps us. It doesn’t matter how we pray either. We don’t have to use big, posh words. He listens to all who communicate with Him.

Be Patient in Affliction

Now, back to the second piece of advice which Paul gave. This is probably the most hardest to carry out: Be patient in affliction. Oh my! How we are being tested to the max with this in the current crisis. Patience with our children, patience in waiting for answers, patience whilst maybe we are in pain. Patience with __________ (insert your own dilemma).

The second advice which Paul gives is easier to cope with if we are able to take on the first and third pieces of advice: Be joyful in hope and faithful in prayer. Those who are joyful in what they hope for their future and who pray to God continually will have a much easier time being patient through the hard times.

I’m not writing this from first hand experience. I’m the world‘s worst when it comes to waiting and find it really hard to find joy during the trials I experience. I am able to say this through watching how other people respond and react in their tough situations. I find it encouraging and it spurs me on to keep going in my own tough times with carrying out Paul’s advice.

My friend, Shelly Miller, is a great example of someone who is faithful in praying and has found joy in hope. In turn, she is able to be at peace in her current situation. In her own words, she writes this…

“I can tell you that even amidst dire reports from doctors, I’m experiencing unexplainable peace of mind and joy in heart.”

Shelly Miller, The Sabbath Society Newsletter

Something to think about…

Paul is not minimising the trials and hardships we go through in life, and neither am I. I know how hard life can be. I’ve had a fair share of unpleasantness in my own life. What Paul wants to point out is that if we keep strong in our faith, waiting patiently during this time of lockdown, the struggles we experience now will be worth it when we come through the other side with our hope in Christ.

Prayer

Dear God, thank you for the hope you have provided to us through your Son, Jesus Christ. We live in a world where waiting patiently doesn’t come naturally anymore. May we hold onto the truth that Jesus is the Hope we need which provides us with joy during our current situations. Thank you that you are always there with us whatever we are facing. May we remember to turn to you so in turn you can provide us with peace in mind and joy in heart. Amen.

When all is lost, don’t lack patience

I snapped at a friend once. Straight away I apologised for the use of my sharp tongue. I was getting frustrated and impatient at situations and I just ended up lashing out. 

Anyone ever done that? 

She looked at me graciously and told me not to worry. She thought I was one of the most patient people going, considering I had 5 kids and a ton of things to do. 

I probably would agree with her on that point. I think I am quite patient with people. I tolerate a whole heap before I end up biting someone’s head off. It’s usually with people I am close to that gets a whip of my tongue! 

The reason I am patient with people is because I can see them. I can gauge, more or less, how people may respond and how I would need to respond back accordingly. Plus, I may never see a certain person again for a while, so being patient with them in the moment is easier. 

However, when it comes to situations I find myself in where I am waiting for something to happen, I find myself being like a little girl in a sweet shop wanting what she wants…and now!

At first, I am ok. Slowly though as time progresses and I am still waiting for answers and situations to resolve, I find myself getting restless. When it doesn’t go my way or how I planned, I start to feel angst. I feel I lose control. 

That’s when I start to snap with people. Not because of them, but because of what I am going through. 

I am impatient!

I forget at these times who has me when I lack patience. 

The afflicted shall eat and be satisfied; those who seek him shall praise the Lord! May your hearts live forever! Psalm 22:26

In these moments, I forget who walks by my side when I lose my patience. 

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11

I forget in these situations who I can turn to when I feel anxious.

Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Philippians 4:6

This is what I need to remember next time I lack patience in a situation which does not go my way:

Be still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; do not fret when people succeed in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes. Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil. For those who are evil will be destroyed, but those who hope in the LORD will inherit the land. Psalm 37:7-9


This was written for the Five Minute Friday Community, where a number of writers gather for a weekly writing challenge around a single word prompt and write to our hearts content, but only for five minutes (or there abouts).

This weeks word prompt is ‘lack’. Click here if you want to see what other people wrote. You can also have a go yourself. What do you think of when you hear the word ‘lack ’?

Day 31 – The Door may Close, but God is still Close

Sometimes when a door closes on us, we feel a bit let down. An opportunity we were waiting for that was in our grasp has been taken away. When opportunities constantly seem to pass us by, we then start to get despondent.

We don’t see in these moments the opportunities God is working out beneath our disappointments. Paul experienced a lot of closed doors when he was travelling around. They practically slammed right in his face.

That didn’t stop him from persevering on. He knew God was still close beside him, despite the disappointments he was facing. The doors closing in front of him we’re paving the way to open ones ahead. We just can’t see the open door just yet.

Take heart, friends. We experience many doors closing in our lives, and sometimes it hurts when it slams shut. We may not see what the closed door means now, but when the time is right you may see them as a blessing in the future.

There is an appointed time for everything. And there is a time for every event under heaven. Ecclesiastes 3:1


You are reading day 31 of the Write 31 Days Challenge in conjunction with The Five Minute Friday Community. Today’s word prompt is ‘close ’.

Day 15 – When?

The one question I always get asked, surprisingly, is when are you due? You might as well ask, “When is God going to turn up?” Well, how long is a piece of string? In other words, I have no idea when the babies will come…or when God will turn up!

My official due date is 16th January, but I have been advised we’re going try and get me to 37 weeks. This makes my due date Boxing Day…of all days! The most loveliest time of the year, but yet the most frantic one. Let’s just say I already started buying presents and wrapping them a few weeks ago.

I don’t know when the big day will happen. It could be tomorrow (hopefully not though), or it could be Boxing Day. I don’t know when God will turn up either. (Notice I said when God will turn up and not if God will turn up). I know for sure in my heart, that just like these babies will be born, God will surely be there too!

Wait for the Lord; be strong, and let your heart take courage; wait for the Lord! Psalm 27:14


You are reading day 15 of the Write 31 Days Challenge in conjunction with The Five Minute Friday Community. Today’s word prompt is ‘when’.

Adapting the Mind

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Definition of adapt: Adjust to a different situation or condition.

Bible Definition of adapt: Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. Romans 12:2

Recently, I’ve found myself feeling tired and weighed down with the way my health has been and the situations I have found myself in. This is on top of the journey/waiting period I’m going through of finding who I am. Where do I fit in and what is God calling me to do? My mind has been working over time and spiralling down a slope.

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