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Day 16 in God’s Love – God’s Love is found in Your Village

I’ve been reading Becky Keife’s newly released book, “No Better Mom for the Job”. It’s been lovely to read a book where I feel like I’m not alone in this motherhood world. Believe me, being a mother can make you feel like you’re the most loneliest and unlovable person going.

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Becky uses her own situation to describe so well how loving each other can show God’s love for ourselves. She learnt that accepting help from other people gives them a chance to show off the gifts God gave them. In turn, she was then able to reciprocate the gifts she has when the need arose. Being a village for each other not only brings about a community, but it enables God to use His people to show His love.

This isn’t about being each other’s savior. There is only One of those. Yet, we experience more of Christ when we lean into the call to love.

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When I Found Love in my Own Village

I experienced this love last year when I needed it most. A quarter of the way through the year I found out I was pregnant. This came as a great surprise. The most shocking moment though was when my husband came with me to our first scan. “And here is the first baby” the sonographer announced. Yes, we were having twins!

Once the shock of having twins had set in, the worry of how we were to provide for them took over. It was quite a stressful time. A year prior to this we had given up on having anymore children. It had been six years after we had our third child and nothing was happening.

We decided to give away all our baby items and clothing. It was obvious we weren’t going to have any more children. Well, God obviously had other plans.

Anyway, we had nothing for when the twins were to be born. We were starting from scratch. But this time already having three growing children.

This was where my village stepped in. Numerous people in my church rallied around and threw a surprise baby shower for me. They showered me with their gifts of love and friendship in ways I would never have imagined. People I hardly knew offered what they did best – the gift of giving.

Little did they know a few weeks prior to this I felt the need for God to really show His love to me. I wanted Him to break through in ways I had not experienced before. Oh, and did He break through!

Becky shares a great Bible verse which captures exactly what I experienced:

Something to think about…

Next time someone offers to help you, can you bite the bullet and say yes? You never know if your yes will be the making of a new friendship. It also gives God a chance to shine through that person. Let Him use other people to shower you with His love.

Prayer

Lord God, we pray for you to touch us with your love in ways we cannot imagine. Use other people around us to show us your love. Open our eyes too so that we do not miss what you want to give us. Amen.


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God is in the Midst of Friendships

The current season of waiting I am in has had me contemplating. I have been thinking about the people I have in my life. This season has taught me a lot about who I have around me. Especially, in times when I have needed a friend. People who I thought would be by my side through this season have faded away. Continue reading God is in the Midst of Friendships

Day 8 – God Provides Comfort in Times of Need

The habit of thumb sucking is seen as quite innocent up until a certain age. After this, it is then seen as a sign of insecurity. Children suck their thumb to give them comfort. 

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You’ve Got A Friend In Me

You are reading a Five Minute Friday word prompt. This is hosted by Kate Motaung and is where a group of people write about a given word for that week. This week the word is “friend”.

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I guess most of us have probably watched Toy Story and heard of the song “You’ve Got a Friend in Me”. It has been sung at various points in all three of the Toy Story films.

The most poignant time that the song was used though was when Woody saw the episode of Woody’s Roundup in Toy Story 2. It showed the puppet Woody singing this song, which was directed towards the younger audience. Whilst he was singing, a small child is shown hugging the puppet. When Woody sees this, he had a revelation that his main reason for being made was to be there for a child. As well as being a friend to a child, he also realised that he could be a friend to the person that he envied the most – Buzz Lightyear.

What if this was applied to us in every day life though? We all need a friend, don’t we? We all need someone to “round us up” when the going gets tough. We need someone who is going to be by our side.

Do you want to know one sure way to find a friend? Be a friend to someone else first. Why don’t you say to someone today, “You’ve got a friend in me”? You never know that you may end up having a friendship that will never die.