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God Holds Us In The Hard

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Having a baby is not easy. There are countless nappies that have to be changed. And then there’s the never ending feeds. The worst part though is the constant disruption to sleep. Being woken up during the night when you are in a deep sleep is not easy to cope with, especially when a crying child needs settling. 

The other night I was woken up abruptly by the sound of one of the twins screaming. No amount of milk or pain relief would soothe her. All I could do was just hold her in my arms tightly close to my chest. I would just keep whispering in her ears, “don’t worry, everything is ok. Mummy has got you.”

Whilst I was holding her and soothing her, I came to the realisation that this is how God is with me. Going through the trials I am facing right now provides a whole heap of pain. It doesn’t matter how much pain relief I try, such as scrolling through Instagram, having a glass of wine or binge watching on Netflix, it doesn’t take away the pain. 

What helps to relieve my pain is knowing that God has hold of me during my hard times. He is gently whispering in my ear “don’t worry, everything is ok. Daddy has got you.”

He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will carry the lambs in his arms, holding them close to his heart.  Isaiah 40:11

Something to think about…

I love my sleep, very much! But do you know what? I love my babies more. I know the season I am in is a hard one, but I also know it isn’t going to last forever. What does last forever is God’s love and how much He will hold me.

If you feel you are going through a painful time right now, take heart, dear one. Fall into His arms and let Him hold you tightly. 

Prayer

Lord, when we are surrounded by so much uncertainty, let us be reminded by the truth that you are the One who is certain in our lives. When we are in pain, hold us in your loving arms and instil in us a peace that only you can provide. Thank you, Lord, for being there no matter what. Amen.


This was written for the Five Minute Friday Community, where a number of writers gather for a weekly writing challenge around a single word prompt and write to our hearts content, but only for five minutes (or there abouts).

This weeks word prompt is ‘hold’. Click here if you want to see what other people wrote. You can also have a go yourself. What do you think of when you hear the word ‘hold ’?

Faith

His Grace Is Sufficient

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My church have been amazing during the lockdown period providing for people’s needs both practically and spiritually. One of the ways they have met our needs spiritually is by providing a daily reflection which takes place three times a week through their YouTube channel. People from church have provided us with words of encouragement and wisdom during a period that has been hard to navigate at times.

Someone at church then approached me to see if I wanted to provide a thought for their daily reflection. Being given this opportunity was exciting, but it was also daunting at the same time. What could I possibly provide that may be able to help others through what they are experiencing? I find in these moments, God has a way of showing us what He wants others to see. This post is the result of What God has shown me through this lockdown period. To see the YouTube version click here.

His Grace is Sufficient

I bet we have all had a wide range of feelings during this Covid-19 crisis. At times we have probably felt angry with the situation we are faced with. Or maybe you have felt sad. Maybe there were times when you felt nervous or anxious about the unknown. Sometimes we may have even had a little cry and experienced all sorts of emotions in between. 

And it’s all ok. Everything we are feeling is all ok. There is no wrong emotion to feel when we are in the middle of a crisis. What you are feeling right now is the right response to feel, and it’s OK. 

At the end of the day, we didn’t see this crisis coming. It came upon us so quickly and we were thrown into a whirlwind of dos and don’ts. There is not one person who has not been affected by Covid-19. We may not have been physically affected, but certainly the restrictions that were put in place would have had an impact on us immensely. 

During this epidemic, I have found myself experiencing a range of emotions. From feeling happy and content when I have spent quality time with my family, to feeling extreme frustration when my kids cannot get along with each other. Life is not easy at the best of times. Throw in an epidemic into the mix and you probably have something that resembles my cake making. Absolute shambles! 

We then probably start to place expectations on ourselves because we think we should be able to cope with this. This is new territory though. The vast majority of us has probably never lived through an epidemic. Shops shutting down. Holidays cancelled. Schools closing. Jobs lost. Appointments rescheduled. Our lives put on hold. No wonder we were probably feeling overwhelmed. 

Right at the beginning, I felt so overwhelmed with it all. I had put so much pressure on myself to achieve everything that it nearly all came crashing down. Momentarily, I forgot who I could turn to in times like this to help me get through. I thought I could do it on my own, but I couldn’t. I was on my knees one day and just cried out, “I can’t do this anymore”.

As I knelt there feeling overwhelmed, that’s when I felt a gentle touch saying “You don’t have to”. It’s in our weakest moments that God shows His greatest strengths. When we feel weak with pain or stress, that is when we can expect God to reveal Himself. 

It’s in our weakest moments that God shows His greatest strengths. Click To Tweet

Paul reminds us in 2 Corinthians chapter 12:9:  

But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.

Something to think about…

Living this life we have takes more than human strength. We can only get through this by the grace and power of God. Don’t do what I did and wait until you are on your knees crying out to Him. Take time now and ask Him to come into your heart. You will be amazed at how God will come into your brokenness and shine through those cracks in your life. 

Prayer

Lord, I know I am weak. but I also know that you use my pain and weakness to show your amazing strength. Please give me the knowledge that your grace is all I need. Help me be proud of my weaknesses, because they will show your strength and protection. Shine through me today, Lord, so that others may see the amazing power you can give. Amen

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LOCKDOWN-HOLY WEEK REFLECTIONS-DAY 7

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Lockdown Day 7

A couple of days ago, the news came through that lockdown is to be extended by another three weeks. Whilst this was to be expected, I guess we were all hoping there was a slim chance the waiting period would be over. More waiting. It’s this in-between-time which we find so hard. It brings about more uncertainty.

Over Easter, Holy Saturday is where the body of Jesus Christ lay in the tomb, and is the period of uncertainty. It is the moment of somber waiting. We find this waiting period the hardest part to experience. Reflecting on what was and wondering what is to come.

Wait and Be Patient

How can we wait patiently during a time of uncertainty, especially when the waiting brings feelings of anxiety or sadness. Paul gives us some pretty sound advice when it comes to waiting. His threefold advice is paramount to our emotional and spiritual well-being.

"Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer." Romans 12:12

Be Joyful in Hope

Firstly, be joyful in hope. You’re probably wondering how we can have hope in our current situation, let alone joy. Experiencing hope and joy is not just about changing our mindset. We do actually have a reason to be hopeful, as well as joyful.

As Christians, we always have hope. Our hope is found in Jesus Christ, the One who defeated death. This should give us the right perspective we need in our current situation and therefore provide us with the joy we need. Do you want the good news? Everyone has access to Jesus as their Hope – not just Christians!

Do you want the good news? Everyone has access to Jesus as their Hope – not just Christians! Click To Tweet

Be Faithful in Prayer

I’m going to skip the second piece of advice briefly and look into Paul’s third piece of advice. (You’ll see why in a minute – be patient 😊😉) Paul’s third advice is to be faithful in prayer. Keep praying – wherever we are, whatever we are doing and whenever we can.

Keep praying – wherever we are, whatever we are doing and whenever we can. Click To Tweet

When we experience any type of suffering, we should pray whilst we wait for what we are hoping in. When we pray, it connects us with God. God hears us and understands what we are going through and He helps us. It doesn’t matter how we pray either. We don’t have to use big, posh words. He listens to all who communicate with Him.

Be Patient in Affliction

Now, back to the second piece of advice which Paul gave. This is probably the most hardest to carry out: Be patient in affliction. Oh my! How we are being tested to the max with this in the current crisis. Patience with our children, patience in waiting for answers, patience whilst maybe we are in pain. Patience with __________ (insert your own dilemma).

The second advice which Paul gives is easier to cope with if we are able to take on the first and third pieces of advice: Be joyful in hope and faithful in prayer. Those who are joyful in what they hope for their future and who pray to God continually will have a much easier time being patient through the hard times.

I’m not writing this from first hand experience. I’m the world‘s worst when it comes to waiting and find it really hard to find joy during the trials I experience. I am able to say this through watching how other people respond and react in their tough situations. I find it encouraging and it spurs me on to keep going in my own tough times with carrying out Paul’s advice.

My friend, Shelly Miller, is a great example of someone who is faithful in praying and has found joy in hope. In turn, she is able to be at peace in her current situation. In her own words, she writes this…

“I can tell you that even amidst dire reports from doctors, I’m experiencing unexplainable peace of mind and joy in heart.”

Shelly Miller, The Sabbath Society Newsletter

Something to think about…

Paul is not minimising the trials and hardships we go through in life, and neither am I. I know how hard life can be. I’ve had a fair share of unpleasantness in my own life. What Paul wants to point out is that if we keep strong in our faith, waiting patiently during this time of lockdown, the struggles we experience now will be worth it when we come through the other side with our hope in Christ.

Prayer

Dear God, thank you for the hope you have provided to us through your Son, Jesus Christ. We live in a world where waiting patiently doesn’t come naturally anymore. May we hold onto the truth that Jesus is the Hope we need which provides us with joy during our current situations. Thank you that you are always there with us whatever we are facing. May we remember to turn to you so in turn you can provide us with peace in mind and joy in heart. Amen.

Abide, Faith, Holy Week Reflections

LOCKDOWN-HOLY WEEK REFLECTIONS-DAY 6

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Lockdown Day 6

Who do you think about when you go through a hard season? Do you think of your loved ones? Your family? Maybe your neighbour? How about the person standing 2 meters in front of you in the queue? You are both waiting to go into the supermarket. Both of you are wondering if there will be enough food inside.

When we go through a time where we think it is impossible to see the light at the end of the tunnel, could you honestly say you would think of other people? Honestly? I’ll be honest…I’m probably usually thinking “Please Lord, get me out of this mess.” Am I right?

Offer a prayer for everyone

Praying for other people when we don’t have much going on in our lives is pretty easy. Thinking of someone else when we have something traumatic going on can be a pretty tough call though. Why worry about someone else’s problems when you have so much going on yourself?

When I think of the Easter weekend we have just celebrated I am struck by how much Jesus is still putting others first, despite what He is going through. As Jesus hung on the cross, people below mocked Him and jeered Him. Yet He was still able to say, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.” (Luke 23:34).

He thought about the people hanging there with him. When it seemed all hope was lost, He turned to one of them and provided him with the hope he needed. Jesus is experiencing the most excruciating pain, physically, emotionally and spiritually, and yet He still showed love towards a man who didn’t deserve it.

Paul wrote to the early Christians in Thessalonica and advised how they should live and treat each other. 

May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else . . . May he strengthen your hearts so that you will be blameless and holy in the presence of our God and Father when our Lord Jesus comes with all his holy ones. 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13

Something to think about…

May we use the example of Jesus and the advice given from Paul. Let’s offer a prayer for others in our time of need, especially now as we all face the same crisis. Pray for those on the frontline facing death every day, and also for those who continue to work to make sure our daily needs are provided for. Pray for your neighbours, families and friends. Next time you are out shopping, why not even pray for the person standing 2 meters in front of you.

Prayer

Lord, thank you for the people we have in our lives who we are able to turn to in this time of need. Help us to remember as we go through this crisis ourselves, there are also other people going through this too. We know you are the rock in whom we can take refuge in, but there are people out there who don’t know this. There are people around us who are hurting and need your protection. Open our eyes Lord to the people around us. Help us to focus our prayers on other people rather than ourselves. Amen

Abide, Faith, Holy Week Reflections

LOCKDOWN-HOLY WEEK REFLECTIONS-DAY 5

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Lockdown Day 5

Thursday was a day where we celebrated Maundy Thursday. It is where we learn what it truly means to dwell in Christ’s love. In turn, we then learn how we can love each other. We look at how Jesus acts, the words He teaches and how He prays. It is the origins from which the life of the Church, and the life as a Christian, stems from.

Dwell in His presence

On Maundy Thursday, Jesus shared His last meal with His friends before He is killed. This is known as the Last Supper. Through the breaking of the bread and the sharing of the wine, He shows His disciples a way in how they could still dwell with Him as well as with each other.

Jesus is nearing His final hour where He will be mercilessly taken from them. He will experience the most darkest moment when He is betrayed. Brutally, he then suffers the shame on the cross.

They don’t realise this yet, but the gifts Jesus is teaching the disciples in the Last Supper will be crucial for them. Especially as they see the brutality Jesus experiences over the next few days. He is teaching them how He stays with them during hard times. This is crucial for us too.

How Jesus dwells with us

When Jesus shared the bread and the wine, He gave the disciples the gift of himself. When Jesus washed their feet, He showed them the gift of serving in love. Jesus showed them a new way to live which went against what society expected. They didn’t know it yet, but they were going to change the world!

Through the breaking of the bread, the disciples learnt a new way in how to dwell in Christ’s presence. Through the washing of the feet, they also learnt a new way in how they are to treat others in times of hardship. We are learning this too right now. We can still dwell in Christ during this outbreak. Furthermore, we can learn new ways in how we can reach others.

Jesus, through the Last Supper, came to meet our needs. He showed us how we are to be with one another. We need to show love in action. Not a love which is powerful, but a love that is humble. 

"A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another.“ John 13:34

Something to think about…

In a time where we are supposed to keep barriers up between us due to social distancing, let’s not put up imaginary barriers to stop us from serving. Let it not stop you from loving like Jesus loves which breaks down all barriers.

We can meet the needs of others by providing food for one another. We can minister to people by connecting with each other. It can be a simple phone call or an exchange of e-mails. We live in an age now where we are no longer limited to the old fashion way of connecting. It can be a simple phone call or an exchange of e-mails. Let’s become a community that knows how to love each other, just as Christ first loved us.

Let’s become a community that knows how to love each other, just as Christ first loved us. Click To Tweet

Prayer

God, thank you for the gift of your Son, Jesus Christ. May we grasp hold of the knowledge that Jesus shared His life with us so that we can dwell in Him always. Jesus will experience the most darkest moment of His life, but that didn’t stop Him from loving His people. Help us to be an example of what Jesus taught us on His last night. May we reach out to others to show them the love Jesus shows us. Amen.